Happiness

Dua hari ini ak lg hepi.. kek bakal ada sesuatu yg bakal terjadi. Tp apa yah??? Aneh nya sepupu ku malah bilang dia lg ada bad feeling... nah loh.. kok isa bertentangan gini siy? Ak na good feeling, dia nya bad feeling.
Wah sebener na ak g tau mao nulis apa di blog, cuman yah buat ngisi2 waktu ajah, abis lg bosen lg nungguin Kishidou g dateng2... hum... let's talk about... happiness.
Happiness, is it just a human feelings that nobody can describe how it feels actually. Sama ajah kek feeling2 yang laen. Such as love, anger, sadness, ect ect. How can we know if we feel happy? Maybe we feel happy klo kesandung duit sekoper, atau menang undian semilyar, atau katakanlah cinta kita diterima sama org yang dari dulu kita kejar2. Hehe.
Is that happy means?
Actually, we can choose to be happy, or to be NOT happy. How come? I mean.. look at us... Kita adalah tokoh utama dalam cerita kita masing2, dan orang2 disekitar kita adalah pemeran pembantu; padahal kalo kita pikir, mereka juga adalah tokoh utama, tentu saja dalam cerita (baca : hidup) mereka sendiri.
Kita bangun pagi tadi, kita ada disini, mungkin baca tulisan ini, kita masih bernafas, itu adalah suatu ANUGERAH. Is that rite? Walau pun setiap manusia pasti lah punya masalah. Bahkan banyak yang masalah na semakin banyak begitu memasuki tahun 2007 ini. But hey, look... we're still alive, we can still breathe the fresh air, we still can feel so much feelings.
Don't you think that YOU ARE BLESSED?
Iya, ak ga muna. Tetep ajah, ak suka menggerutu, marah2, dan merasa g puas atas ak apa adanya, atau feeling desperate with my problems. Tapi, bukankah kita masi bisa menyelesaikan masalah itu? Setiap masalah, apapun itu kan pasti ada jalan keluarnya. So why not smile and try to enjoy your day? Take a deep breath.. and let you think positive... =)
We may have a big big problem. But why not try to say "Thanks God" and just believe... you will feel MUCH MUCH BETTER.

Wad Is "The Wedding" Mean?

Ehm, banyak orang takut dengan yg nama nya komitmen, dan komitmen diatas segala komitmen adalah merit alias nikah. What's the reason behind marriage? Jawaban yang langsung ada di pikiran adalah "cinta" but hey.. that's too abstract, isn't it?
Gimana klu feeling? When your feeling says you wants marry this someone, than marry him/her. Hehe... gampang na si gitu... tp apa si logika nya di balik org merit ituh? Let me try to write it here...

Menikah itu seperti bermain kaki tiga.
Itu lho, permainan jaman 17 Agustusan ketika kita harus memilih partner yang kaki sebelahnya diikat ke salah satu kaki kita dan berdua musti mencoba berlari sama-sama, sambil nahan malu
dan berusaha nggak jatuh di tengah- tengah ibu-ibu satu RT yang histeris.

It's like the game in the sense that your partner and you understand each other perfectly where to go.

Your partner and you understand that you need to walk together without anyone left behind, dragged behind, tailed behind, or holding you from behind. You know that you need to harmonize your path together.

Your partner and you agree on how tight the rope should be tying your legs together, either loose, considerably tight, or barely feel it; and understand that the rope is there not to keep either of you from doing something else, but to give you a chance to do it together and win the day.

Last but not least, both of you agree that when something got rough, blaming the other for falling down will not do any good. Picking up the other's shoulder and support him/her to keep on walking is the only way to get to the finish line.


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